What Is A Negative Trait You Have That You Are Trying To Fix? – #TQOTD

Everyone on the show's answer to today's #TQOTD was eating-related!  Fish's was just watching what he ate, Connie's was living by the "everything in moderation" philosophy, and Steve's was that he eats the dead skin on his fingers.  EWWWWWWWWW!

TEXT QUESTION OF THE DAY:
What is a negative TRAIT you have that you are trying to fix?

• TQOTD...My most negative trait is I have this habit of assuming the worse case scenario in any situation. I have tried like hell to break it. It's not working
• TQOTD. Trying to change being a people pleaser. A lot of people catch on to fact I don't say no often and take advantage of that..No more being used!!!
• Self confidence and insecurity
• I interrupt....
• I need to be more positive about life and less judgmental of people. There are good ones out there.
• My self hatred. It's eaten me alive for years and for the first time ever I truly love myself and who I have evolved into with alot of help! 7 months off alcohol and lots of therapy and recovery coach appointments have helped immensely in my ability to become this amazinggg person. One day at a time. #222dayssober #smartrecovery
• Listening. I am usually so preoccupied or trying to multi-task that I hear, but I don't LISTEN. It's becoming worse too with the age of electronics and age! Ugh!
• My mouth(sometimes I say things before I think)
• Being late for work, when I live 7 min away... 6am is just so damn early!
• I’m trying to change how I react to things. I’ve given too much time and energy on stressing over things I have no control over.
• Self doubt and interruption of conversations and also horrible at dating I feel..
• My lack of compassion, empathy and sympathy for people. But then again, I think most people are drama queens, have no backbone, and make a mountain out of a mole hill. Not to mention, the people on social media constantly posting crap for attention in a pity party/feel sorry for me kind of way.
• None.. lol... Just kidding!
• Loosing weight, low patience, anxiety, I could go on and on and on
• No one can be harder on me than me...trying to give myself a chance
• Well... I worry all the time... sometimes things past, present and even future... it eats me up at times... especially because I know it does more harm than good
• No response is a response. I’ve came to the conclusion that you can’t always get closure. I kinda push it. Working on it!
• Procrastination! I wait until the last minute to do everything. I was going to post this tomorrow but I have an appointment to be late to.
• My body dysmorphia. It causes me to severely mistrust people. I just assume they are lying because how could someone really think that about me?
• Caring to much for other people.Lost to much sleep over it.
• Getting annoyed by people on a daily basis.
• 1. Procrastination 2. Smoking or maybe that should be #1 3. Disorganization at work and home HELP!!!!
• Self doubt I always feel like I am doing something wrong.
• My constant self doubt and negative thoughts. Been working on it for 4 years now. I have had my ups and downs, but i never give up on working on my mindset.
• I used to sugar coat everything, now I'm just blunt, need to find the happy medium and be nicer to people I guess lol
• Having low self worth and esteem. I am almost as pretty as Shrek‍♀️
• Over thinking everything, its made me believe things that aren't true and its ruined some of my relationships
• I'm working on not ingesting SO many carbs. I can do good for a stint and then...it's like the binge of the century and then I feel its' wrath when I can't fit any of my pants. I am working on it.
• Procrastination...I'll get it under control eventually.
• Scrolling thru social media while my husband tries to talk to me.
• Road rage over bad drivers
• Procrastinating.
• Chaotic disorganization
• Interrupting
• Loosing weight
• Low patience
• Thinking negative all the time
• Fish I am currently work on not needing to explain my side. No matter what the topic is or what we are talking about I feel like no one understands my side so I must explain myself. I don't want to be that person that has to be right all the time. So I am working on keeping my side quite and just listen and understand the other person more.
• I'm with Fish my weight but my problem is I HATE VEGETABLES
• Negative trait...I'm too hard on myself..or critical of myself
• trying to stay off energy shots, trying not to text that dam radio station so much. To b nicer to coworkers (ugg)... Hard one cuz some r ssstttuuupppiiidd
• Hey Connie and Fish, my negative trait that I have is that I care way to much about what people think about me and if I’m doing anything to make anyone mad
• TQOTD. Like many, I wish I could stop being so hard on myself and just enjoy life. It can be paralyzing
• My negative trait would be that I would just trust people instead of making them earn it.
• I always joke around when I talk to people and talk in multiple funny voices I didn't realize how stupid I sounded until I got a recording of myself.
• BIP: My negative trait is that I'm a spender!!! I love spending money. I've gotten into way to much debt. So now I gotta fix that!
• SWB Negative trait that I have? DEBT. I'm working on paying that off. My fiance and I are planning to pay off all of our debt in less than 5 years and I've never been more optimistic to have that plan in place. I cant wait to be debt free again.
• I have horrible road rage and I am really trying to not be such an angry driver and think everyone around me is the worst driver ever
• My negative trait that I need to work on is putting the happiness of others before my own.
• TQOTD I put everyone else first and need to work on putting me first sometimes. #workingonit
• I have a habit of saying what I think. I dont necessarily consider it a bad habit, but not everyone appreciates it. =)
• Late night stress eating before bed. It's my favorite part of the day.
• I always put everybody else’s needs above my own, because I always feel like they need me more than I need me. But no more! A woman needs her me time!
• I am trying to fix that I am way too OCD.. I have to fold the laundry and do all the yard work because I want it done my way. Brandy
• I have the habit of saying exactly what's on my mind- with 0 thoughts about how someone might feel -.- I just think everyone wants my brutal honesty.
• I'm cocky... my badge clip says "I may be wrong... but I doubt it"
• Heavy sighs, mumbling complaints out loud for others to hear. It's poison
• Having a more positive attitude towards my mother in law
• Bad trait I'm trying to fix about myself is I have severe RBF. A lot of people I've met say to me later after we become friends that when they first met me they thought I was a "B" I also have to be constantly aware of how I say things because sometimes my inner "B" comes out
• My big fat aggressive mouth... I am getting there. Lol
• I have multiple.. I don't talk about my feelings.. popping pimples.. theres more honestly but I'm not good at on the spot thinking