We got a message from a listener who wanted to know if she was overreacting about something a guy did on a first date, or if she is right in considering it a "red flag". The two were out on their first date and they pulled into a gas station to get gas and clean the bugs from off the windshield. The guy only cleaned his side of the windshield and when she asked him to clean her's he basically said he didn't need to because she wasn't driving and didn't need to see. Is she overreacting thinking that this is a "red flag" or should she avoid this guy and not go out with him again?