Hey, quit being so bad at that thing you want to be better at.  But, before you go get better at that thing, tell us what it is.

SECRETS:
What do you secretly wish you were better at and why?

  • I really wish I could be better in social situations. I’m a total introvert but I work in a job that requires customer service. Over the years I can’t tell you how many times something completely awkward and out there has come out of my mouth just because I was at a total loss for what to say. Of course, I always think of the right thing to say about two hours later when I’m mentally berating myself for it, but I never can come up with it in the moment.
  • I have always wished I could be a better singer. I’m awful but I love to sing. I was told as a child by a music teacher to never sing out loud. So I confine my singing to my car and at home to my dogs, they don’t mind.
  • I wish I was better at having will power when eating and exercising
  • ? Of dah day... dieting, keeping my mouth shut, telling people off.
  • Wish I was better at being alone and handling my emotions.
  • I wish I was better at setting aside some me-time. I am the mother of a 3-year-old boy and 2-month-old twin girls. Between work and being a mom, it is very hard to set aside some me-time.
  • I wish I was better at standing up to people, saying no, and not being so afraid of the other persons feelings when I want to be honest with my own feelings.
  • I secretly wish I was better at directions and where I’m at on this planet! I get lost and turned around so easily, it’s pathetic really!
  • I wish I stood up for myself more with my husband.
  • The thing I want to be better at is how I handle being in a relationship. When I start fall for people I get scared I'm going to hurt them so I push my self away. So I want to get better at handling relationships and stop pushing people away
  • Being outgoing...I’ve always been shy. I tend to keep to myself, and I’m rarely the first one to talk to a stranger. I also hate talking in large groups; I usually just listen and only give my opinion when asked. I’ve resigned myself to the fact that I am an introvert and shyness is part of my personality, but I’ve always envied people who are confident, friendly and outgoing.
  • Probably cooking, but I plan on winning the lottery one day and hiring a chef.
  • Math. I seriously suck at it, but thankfully my career doesn't require it!
  • Using a filter and not talking so much. I am my mother's daughter ❤
  • Sleeping
  • Secrets... I wish I was better at relationship CRAP!!!! Answering texts and that stupid thing called communicating!!!
  • My answer to secrets today is prioritizing things I need to get done. I'm gonna be honest, my inner self is very lazy and most times I just sleep and eat instead of getting things done
  • Gud morning Connie And Fish, hello Steve. I secretly wish I was better at holding a conversation.
  • I wish I was better at talking to people. I overthink and it usually causes me to be the quiet awkward one or I say things that don't flow with the conversation
  • Singing while playing guitar. It's hard to do both.
  • #secrets I wish I was better with money. I'm terrible with saving, investing, looking for deals to save more, etc. I know that it's possible, but I just gotta get it together and figure it out, so that way I don't have anxiety all the time about bills lol
  • I secretly wish I had the social skills to keep guys as friends. I turned one down because I wasn't ready for the decision to be in a relationship, but it didn't mean I wanted him to never speak to me again. I know for some people that would be the case, but when I state I wanna still be friends I mean let's still talk about cool stuff like we once did. Does it only bother me that we can't just be cool friends in each other's lives?
  • #secrets I wish I was a better wife... I cannot multitask at all
  • I wish I was better at communicating. Could've avoided so many arguments if I would've just opened up
  • Most of my life it’s been socializing and being interesting but in recent years I’ve stopped caring and just accepted that I’m not going to be that person
  • Meeting new people/making friends and then actually leaving the house and doing things with them instead of being an introvert because I really just rather be at home with my cats.
  • Handling stress and to not be so hard on myself.
  • Socializing and approaching chicks because I say the most awkward things to people I meet for the first time even though I am explicitly trying to do the opposite
  • Playing/writing music, and being a good conversationalist, with quick wit and entertaining.
  • Remembering things. I am high all day and can’t remember what happened 15 minutes ago most of the time.
  • I want to get stronger, just not motivated enough.
  • I want to get better at my pole dancing. I am in a class and really enjoy it but I’m just not as good as the other girls.​
  • I wish I was better at picking up guys
  • I wish I was better at self-control I tell myself I’m on a diet and don’t need that cookie 🍪 and then next thing you know the cookies gone and I’m fatter lol damn you cookie!!! #cookie #internsteve
  • Being attractive. I look like I tried to fight a semi-truck with my face
  • Balloon animals
  • I secretly wish I was better at balloon animals. I'm good at other things regarding balloon animals. But my endurance to keep frogging is bad. My boyfriend of five years is good at frogging me though and he doesn't seem to care that I can't frog him. 😂😂
  • I wish I was better at saying NO. I can spread myself to thin and with no return.
  • I wish I was better at my life 😂😂😂 the struggle is frogging real