We found this list that the Huffington Post published. Do you think you're not in the right relationship? This list should lead you in the right direction.


  1. You feel the need to change yourself to make your partner happy.
  2. You have to defend your sig other to family and friends.
  3. Even if it's just a joke...nitpicking happens between you two ALL THE TIME!
  4. You're constantly thinking about what they're up to when you're not around.
  5. They (not you) make all the choices in your relationship.
  6. Doing the dirty....isn't so great or isn't happening.
  7. You want more "me" time. But they want more "we" time.
  8. You feel responsible for their happiness.
  9. They control who and what you see and do.
  10. You're actually wondering if you're in the right relationship.