We get a lot of rando textos from listeners who have questions that need answers. But I don't think we've ever had one this long. Grab a cup of your favorite drink, and sit back. This listener needs your help, but it's a long one...

I wonder if I am nuts.  So I am asking what others think.....

 

My ex who has never really liked my family, has never talked to them has been contacting them now that we are divorced. The first time I found this out I asked my family "Hey it really bothers me that I have to find out through him that you guys are now talking" "It would me nice if you just let me know if you run into him"  This is not like in passing, that they happen to run into him.  He calls them, they talk.  He does things for them.  I know that he is doing this just to get back at me.  My family says that its their business and that they can have a relationship with whomever they want.  My sister says she needs to now have a relationship with him cuz of our girls that we have together.  My family has even lied to me so they wouldn't have to tell me that they keep in contact with him.  They say that I am too demanding and are making liars out of them.

This is the first thing in my family that I have asked for "A little respect"  Am I nuts or what....click of six....

What do you think? Is this listener crazy? Should her ex continue to talk to her family? Let us know in the comments...