How Did Somebody Ruin Or Almost Ruin Your Wedding? – #TQOTD

Fish was the best man in his best friend's wedding over the weekend and he almost was late because the wedding was in a different state right after he left work.  Luckily he got there just in time for photos so he didn't ruin anything.  But that's what gave us the idea about today's text question of the day.

TEXT QUESTION OF THE DAY:
How did somebody ruin or almost ruin your wedding?

• My now SIL came up to my hubby and I while we were doing a toast with the entire wedding party and asked him flat out if he was sure he wanted to do this. It would ruin his life. Everyone was pissed. People started yelling. Hubby looked at her and said if you don't approve you can frogging leave.
• TQOTD...no one tried to ruin my wedding....but maybe someone should have
• Monday's Text Question of the Day. My soon to be mother in law was not going to attend because we were not having to "right" food. My soon to be sister in law dropped out of the wedding party after I purchased her size 0 dress due to the food thing too. Who the heck wears a size 0 that I could find at the last minute. #marriedfor15years #ourchoicesourwedding #youwerenotpayingforit
• #TQOTD My wedding itself was pretty great, my dad showed up last minute. But my reception...my mom and my maid of honor didn't come.
• TQOTD: One of my bridesmaids left her purse at our venue during the ceremony and before the reception. Tucked neatly under her chair out of sight. When we got to the reception she said money was stolen out of her purse. She made such a big deal about it all night. There was nothing I could do during my reception but she got more and more upset. My mom ended up dealing with it somehow. Our friendship pretty much ended after that.
• My husband's best man never showed up, my mother was a complete piece of work, to put it nicely, and our ordained person was not by any means what he seemed to be the day before when we spoke with him about how we wanted everything to go. It was so shitty that the while thing lasted maybe 10 min. Not what we had planned at all!
• Wasn’t my wedding, but the reverend said the wrong name for the bride. Several times.
• My mom and sister got drunk and ate the cake top that we were saving The bakery was so nice, they made a special one for us. That was 20 years ago
• Right before the wedding my soon-to-be husband told me his mother, who lived out of town. Was going to be staying at our new home for the wedding night. There were two bedrooms. Right next to each other. It was all I could think about. The horror!
• I wanted my Uncle/godfather to walk me down the aisle, but his wife didn't let him even attend. (He was wheelchair bound and couldn't drive anymore.)
• I just got married yesterday and our dj didn't show up!!!! Gabriel Guerrero
• David’s Bridal did the alterations wrong on my dress and then fixed it. When I hit the dress home my bridesmaid said what’s that spot on your dress. Back to David’s bridal and fixed it again.
• I forgot to sign the license
• We had a groomsman not show up.
• Wore the wrong bridesmade dress (wrong color)
• My mother in law was cold so she wanted to leave early- as soon as pictures were done to go get a cup of hot tea. So on her way out of the church she fell and broke her leg. I had the fire dept and the paramedics at my wedding... then half the bridal party was at the reception the other half was at the hospital. Plus it was sooo cold the horse limos wouldn't start, and our pipes froze in our house, oh and our washer died the night before too.... LOL!!! I guess I should have paid attention to the signs!!
• The seamstress failed to take 5 inches off my dress, so I had to kick my dress out in front of me, so I didn't trip.
• I didn't eat ,about passed out,I also didn't think, of getting someone to set the food out for the buffet.I thought I had enough time to do it.Wrong.
• The pastor pronounced us by the wrong last name. The pianist screwed up every song and the singers were horrible
• First wedding, limo broke down in the middle of the ghetto, and the cake was late but I didn't know. Then 2nd wedding, my parents forgot the cake and didn't realize it until I asked where it was for the photographer, we ended up starting about 40 minutes late.
• Tqotd. My vendors were pretty hell bent on wrecking everything. My photographer did wonderful my videographer had this phone go out halfway through my video so you don't hear any of my vowels you hear nothing the DJ company sent me the scruffiest Muppet for my very upscale wedding he didn't shave he look like he hadn't showered his suit was wrinkled it was very unprofessional
• And my cake was not what I paid for. It was impossible to cut due to the amount of Rice Krispies
• #tqotd - My sister bailed on being a bridesmaid 3 months before the wedding. Already had all the dresses and shoes ordered, etc. Thankfully the best man's wife fit the dress. She also turned out be a huge help with the bachelorette party and the wedding prep. Totally helped save us from having a horrible wedding. It also rained on our wedding day so we had to change the ceremony from outside to inside but that was already planned ahead.
• What almost ruined my wedding day was a family member who invited additional family members without telling us and sent the best man off to get booze at that time there were no alcohol sales on the weekends and then on at the very next day spent 5 hours calling nonstop to complain about not getting potato salad
• I just moved in January, and this has been my first time living away from my family other than college! My mom has 7 siblings and 4 of them all live in the same area! Asking with all my cousins and grandparents! It was amazing! Every Sunday is dinner at granny’s!
• Oh my Lord- Even though we told his ex-wife that we would walk the 9 yr old to the entrance, my family stil l caught her trying to sneak in. Then, the morning of the ONE damn day we got for a "mini-moon", she started texting us at 7am and wouldn't stop. Yeah, 5 ye ars later, she's still wonderful........
• So the person that partially ruined our wedding was my mother. It started off by her showing up an hour late to ceremony. So everyone is now sitting out in the sun waiting for her. So obviously that shortened the time for pictures. Then while at the reception my brother stuck his hand on this light display and burned his hand, so now the focus is on him. Then my wife hated the dress my mother wore, because it could have been a wedding dress. It was a light pink flowy gown.Then to top off the night, after the wedding was over we had already started our honeymoon, the in laws had surprised us with a cabin before heading out to Miami. We get a phone call at midnight that my mother was in the hospital from passing out while hanging out with other wedding guests.So of course now we have to go and make sure all is ok, an turns out she was pregnant and that's why she passed out from all the dancing and drinking! My wife not happy
• My now sister in law ruined my wedding just last year. While dancing on the dance floor, she bumped into her grandpa and knocked him flat on his back. We had to call for an ambulance and the mood was ruined after that. Thankfully he’s perfectly fine!
• TQOTD: my wedding reception got ruined by my cousin and alcoholic aunt. My cousin was only 20 so bartenders wouldn't serve him (obviously) so my aunt kept sneaking him beer. They got warned three times them the bartenders said they were shutting it down because they didn't want to risk their liquor license. Meantime, I knew non of this was happening so we paid $4,000 for open bar from 6-11pm but it got shut down at 8. After they left, our guests slowly started leaving. Instead of a romantic wedding night, I spent the night crying.
• I woke up on my wedding day to a bunch of guys passed out on my living room floor. Our roommate went to the bar the night before and they all came back to our place wasted
• At my wedding my brother and sister-in-law who were both in my wedding almost didn't come at all from the east side of the state because I wanted them at the rehearsal
• My mother in law would keep running across our reception and turning the music down. I would have my sister turn it back up and it kept happening.
• I'm coming up on one year (28th) and my wedding was almost ruined by my father not showing up to walk me down the isle. NOW that sounds AWFUL. My father has struggled with alcoholism my entire life. I have two plans: A) my brother walk me B) they both walk me. On the night of my wedding I was told he wasn't going to show up and had been drinking. I was prepared for the news but it really really hurt and I was upset the entire run through. The next day our wedding was fantastic. My brother had me laughing down the isle and all the people I needed there were there to support my husband and I.
• Test Question of the day- my wedding was nearly ruined when our venue owners had us mixed up with a different wedding party. We had paid early and paid for an extra hour to have access to the bridal house on site for the bride and bridesmaids to get ready. So, we arrived two hours early to get into the house and start getting ready. The owner wasn't readily available and wouldn't let us in the house. I had to "calmly" inform her that we paid for two hours of early access. After an hour of mix up she finally unlocked the doors, meanwhile we had already started getting ready in the reception hall on site. We packed everything up and ran to the house. Frantically got ready, my dress wouldn't zip. And our photographer was there and ready for us to start our scheduled photos. After getting ready we had 40 mins to get all photos done onsite of the wedding location. We were running around trying to get all the photos done outside while the guests began to arrive The owner ruined our leisure
• My mom left the flowers at her house over an hour away. She ran home and made it back 5-10min before the ceremony. Whew
• I must preface this with a few caveats: this wasn't my wedding and it wasn't a person persay that almost ruined it. So I was a groomsman in my buddy's wedding a few years ago. The ceremony was going very well and I even remarked to my friend how well it go. Then, almost as if on cue, the power cuts out right in the middle of the vows. It ended up being better than expected with the audience using their phones for light, which created some really cool photos!
• One of our friends was the best man for one of our other friends. He accidentally left the wedding ring on the counter of a 7/11 that he had been to. Luckily for him the counter person saw it and had it ready for him when he came screeching back. Held up the wedding for about an hour. LOL
• Text question of the day: my husband's brother was supposed to be the best man. 2 months before the wedding his wife threw a tantrum because she wasn't in the wedding and made him choose between her and his brother. Luckily my brother stepped up to be the best man. My husband and his brother didn't let it ruin their relationship. But the wife... we haven't spoken a word to her since (it's been 3 years).
• Being from Texas we got married in the north Dallas area. My mother's always been one of those people that you think they mean well, but are actually hurtful on purpose. She did two things at once and there was nothing we could really do. She showed up late and was wearing pretty much all white. Let's just say we've seen her twice in eight years.
• Connie and fish:: my wedding was horrible! The pastor forgot to tell everyone to sit down when the ceremony started. My cake was melting because it was so hot. My DJ (who is my uncle) decided to leave a couple hours into the reception because he wanted to go to another party. At the first dance he forgot to make sure the groom was present,so i was standing in the middle of the floor alone until someone found him. My mom was tired early in and told my dad, who took over DJing that she was tired and just ended it without notice. Plus they kept playing the wrong music the entire night for our specific dances. Such an embarrassment. But now we're divorced so I guess I can let it go now.
• Me the bride leaving the wedding reception ran out of gas in car. Groom was not happy. Groom and the best man had to go get gas for me. So our wedding night was a bummer but we have been married 21 years regardless.
• I had a couple things almost ruin my wedding first the person who set up my [1]1000 wedding cake hooked the fountain up wrong and the blue water sprayed all over the white cake. Second a 5 pound piece of Ice fell off the building and hit my father in law in the head but he one who got me the most was the hotel we got married at staged an employee right next to me all night to make sure I didn't drink. Who cares if I was only 18 stop being "the man" hotel. #stickittotheman
• I almost ruined my wedding by getting my monthly friend
• ?-day..... my floozy girlfriend was hitting on my old man on the dance floor of the reception.Dang wench.
• Anonymous please. My first marriage was ruined by finding out two days after we were married he cheated on me with his sisters best friend WHILE I WAS SLEEPING UPSTAIRS!!! I had a suspicion that he cheated so I asked him about it two days after we were married, the day he was leaving for basic training. Devastating, but a blessing in disguise.
• At my wedding my brother hired 2 of his girlfriends to work the bar. By the end of the night we were in the bathroom cleaning barf up. They barfed everywhere but toilet. Wife was pissed. Whenever we see those ladies we see them going opposite direction
• My grandpa died 2 weeks before my wedding. Then, when the day came, one limo was supposed to pick up me, my groom, my matron-of-honor, & our best man, while the second limo collected the two sets of our parents. Without warning, the driver refused to separate the cars, so by the time we arrived at the church, I had 10 minutes to get ready. No hairdo, no make-up, and the inner lining of the back of my dress was sticking out and I wasn't aware. Should have listened to all the warnings. The marriage was horrible and I divorced him 3 years later on our 3rd anniversary! Buh-bye.
• P.S. My second wedding was much, much better. Relaxed, fun, intimate, special. And it's been almost 7 years this time (so far), plus we dated off & on for over 20 years before the "I dos".
• TQOTD...I have to call our wedding a lesbian wedding for context. Even though it's just a wedding these days. .. My wife and I were cutting the cake and our DJ started playing when a man loves a woman...... COME ON MAN jackass. Good news none of our guests even realized it because they were enjoying our beautiful day with us
• Hey connie and fish. My answer to the text question of the day. My ex mother inlaw almost ruined my wedding 3 years ago. She was so against her son and i getting married. Well this year would of been our 3 year anniversary. Not a sad story though as i had found out he was cheating on me for a big part of our marrige. We have been separated for a month. Have to say, this is the happiest ive been since my daughter was born almost 2 years ago
• I've got two of them for you. First one in my best man my ex husband's brother stood up at our wedding and said well we know you could have done better but we'll take what you can get. the second one was when we were all going to take a pictures after the wedding, my ex husbands mother comes up and the photographer says why don't you smile? she goes I have nothing to smile about. perfect wedding
• Text question....DJ lost my play list and didn't have any of our special songs for the dances.
• Nobody tried to ruin my wedding, But someone should have. 13 years later after going through a divorce I found out that my best friend and both my sisters didn't think I should get married and are astonished it lasted 13 years!
• We married 700+ miles from home. It was about 400 miles into the trip, my hubby realized he forgot his vows at home.
• My best man my brother had got the living snot beat out of him two nights before the wedding so for pictures he just looked like a giant bruise
• Someone forgot my music and had to run home and then My brothers wanted to pay me back for them having to wear pastel vests.. soo they changed out their pants later in the night and did a dance and stripped down to their boxer briefs and they had PINKY and BUTTERCUP puffy painted on their butts:.. because those were the names of the colors they had to wear. But it was hilarious I just didn't expect my brothers to rip their pants off on the dance floor
• At the rehearsal dinner everyone was discussing what everyone was covering for the wedding my mom said she was paying for the divorce
• I've been somewhat estranged from my parents, figured I would extend the olive branch and invite them to the wedding. They had never met my soon-to-be husband, and when I greeted them after the ceremony they ignored my new husband, and just asked what happened to my ex.....
• My mother somehow forgot that I actually am a wedding planner and was for many years. And decided to take over all of the last-minute details on the day of the wedding and change all of the plans I had including when the food comes out when the toast happens Etc. However the very worst thing is that after we got back from our honeymoon I realized my dad was having an affair with my best friend and maid of honor! I think maybe I should win
• It was my cousins wedding and the aunt of the other family drank and smoked too much. She passed out and the ambulance and cops slowed up
• My husband's stepmom threw a fit because she wasn't lighting the unity candle, his grandma was. And then she told all his family to meet us at the reception hall so we weren't able to take any pictures at the church with his family. She's crazy and thankfully they aren't together anymore.
• My photographer only have me half the pictures he took. But I'm divorced now SOOOOOO....... LOL
• The guy who married my friends mispronounced the bride’s name and only had him say “I do”. They also accidentally played an entire 3+ minute long song instead of the 30 seconds it should have been played. My boyfriend and I were both in the wedding so it was a good laugh.
• The party bus was canceled the date for our winter I called every limo place in Grand Rapids and they all said no the owner of one of them called another and found me one thankfully. But then the driver of that wine was almost 40 minutes late because he overslept in the afternoon.
• My cake was ugly, not what I asked for. My husbands ex step daughters boyfriend got drunk and started fighting with people. I Had to drive him home in the middle of my wedding
• This text question is giving me anxiety, I'm getting married exactly one year from today in Destin Florida.... now I'm nervous... Lolol
• So what ruined our wedding my sister was two minutes from walking down the aisle and my mother they went to open the door to let her in the church and she choked inhaled a meant not only did she choke on it she could not get any air through and had to have the Heimlich so let's say the wedding started a little late
• I got really drunk and opened all our gifts while my wife was asleep after the wedding, so we had no idea what everyone got us.
• My maid of honor did nothing to help me and didn't even plan a bachelorette party, an usher dropped out a week before, we had family threaten to not show up because we invited the ex aunt, girls weren't showing up for fittings so the day of the wedding my maid of horror put on her dress and it wouldn't fit, my husband decided it would be a good idea to go golfing before the wedding and wound up being an hour late, someone stole our cake topper off the cake.
• My only bridesmaid went to JAIL the night before my wedding. No one knew where she was so I had to have my now sisters-in-law step in. Thankfully she was my very best friend in elementary school so it made it special.
• Our dear family friends daughter was getting married and the grooms bratty little sister decided to draw a mustache on the bride's face on the signature photo that the couple had instead of a guest book. So here was this very large portrait with a mustache on the bride.
• My wedding was almost ruined by the venue where I had it. Quail Ridge golf club refused to take my money for the rest of the wedding the day before during the rehearsal dinner, and then stopped us in the middle of the dance floor the night of, and asked us to pay. I also had the ladies that worked there follow me around with my drinks that I sat down to try to get me to finish them. They also had golfers in my reception area while all my bridesmaids and I were getting ready getting drinks and hanging out.On top of all of that the banquet coordinator use our wedding while we were setting up as a showpiece for prospective clients and also had a tasting right before my wedding started. Many times that night I almost lost my crap on them
• I got married on 9/11...... you can tell just by that, that it didn't end well...... For starters me and the groomsmen went ok to breakfast, so 30 min before the wedding I got sick.... I went to the bathroom at the other end of the church so people wouldn't hear me, but then everybody thought I bailed in her(should of)!!!! During the wedding the camera man fell asleep and leaned on the camera so it only shot the top of the church. You could even hear him snore..... at the wedding reception he camera man was hitting on one of the bridesmaids, so she dumped her beer on him, and ruined half of the film......
• My grandma faked a heart attack at my dads wedding.