I Wish My Partner Understood BLANK – #Secrets

It's time to tell us how your partner can improve, but we want to know how they can improve in understanding how you feel.  It's a Connie and Fish #Secrets fill in the blank!

I wish my partner understood __________.

• I wish my partner understood... how truly and deeply they hurt me in the past. It doesn't even phase them that I carry the burden of their actions on a daily basis. And that makes it hurt even more
• I wish my partner understood how I feel all of the times that I'm angry and sad/frustrated during our trial separation. And hope it ends with us back together. I love him so.
• Text question of the day - for one I hope this goes through because I don’t think I’ve ever heard mine come through.... must be crappy answers or I’m doing it wrong lol!! One thing I wish my spouse understood is what the love between siblings really means because he’s an only child. I am 26 and have a 24 and 5 year old brother that I would go to the end of the world for and he doesn’t quite understand it. He loves them and they know it but it’s just not the same as what we would all do for each other!!
• I wish he understood all the hard decisions I had to make for his life, that I really do love, find him attractive and want to have balloon animals with him but I'm so stressed and exhausted every night. I miss the old version of us.
• Why I need to vent about my day at work.
• That when I say I'm having a bad day because of my lupus it means it's a bad day. I might need to stay in bed or just not doing anything beside rest and take care of myself
• Why I love shoes, and technically a shoe ho! Lol
• What's appropriate to say out loud and when to shut up.
• PTSD
• I can't say anything bad about my cats, I live them
• I’m not sure where to begin.
• That death changes people!
• ME!!!!
• That I am crazy and I can't help it.
• Been married 18 years and he still doesn't understand me at all. So...... I wish he just understood me and all the struggles I have and would just be there to listen to me when I need it. Even tho he doesn't deserve it...just hoping it helps him realize he's my favorite person and that's why he gets to go.
• mportance of saving money so we don't have to live paycheck to paycheck and Not using cc
• I wish my husband understood how worried I am about my work situation and our finances.
• I wish my partner understood how badly I want a baby after having 2 miscarriages.
• #secrets.. I wish my partner knew that working from home doesn't = nowork a lot of days I put in longer hours than most people
• I wish that my husband understood what it was like to live out each day and carry on as "normal" while struggling with paralyzing anxiety and fleeting depression, especially while being pregnant and mothering two toddlers. I also work full time and am working on my masters degree. Some things he will just never understand and I'm tired of explaining ‍♀️
• Wish my partner understood exactly how tired I am of his repeat child like behavior. It has me emotionally checked out of our relationship and very near the end. Need a miracle.
• TQOTD.. My partner needs to understand I'm a compulsive flirt and that will never change, and at the end of the day... I'll always be with him.
• How hard it is being the mom...
• I wish my partner understood how much it sucks to be childless and it not be my choice.
• I wish they understood that divorce papers mean it's actually over.. stop trying!
• I wish my husband understood my eating disorder
• TQOTD: I wish my work "partner" knew I wish him the best. We help eachother sweep up the workstations when the day is done, and sometimes he'll randomly sing my name which is kind of adorable. I refer to him as my "work grandpa" because he is a sweet gentleman
• That sometimes it needs to be about me...
• I wish she understood that money doesn't grow on trees.being the only working one in the house and raising our grandchild makes money tight.stop spending money we don't have lol
• I wish my husband would understand that taking care of the twins is harder than he realizes. Especially when one has health issues, and requires some slightly special care.
• I wish my partner understood how awesome of a mother she is
• I wish my partner understood what it was like to go through menopause
• I wish my partner understood menopause, anxiety and depression and how difficult it is to have all three!!
• I wish my husband understood woman time
• How much pain I am in daily. I dont take meds because they dont work and I have kids to care for. I have metal plates in my neck and metal rods and screws in my low back with more surgery needed. And he thinks I am just lazy.
• I have endometriosis and get ovarian cysts regularly and he doesn’t understand the pain
• How mentally exhausting my job as a 9-1-1 dispatcher is... I may not be lifting or doing physical activity but when I get home after 12 hours... I'm beat!
• Tqotd: I wish my husband understood that just because my dad signed off his rights to me at 12, doesn't mean at almost 41, that I don't want to get to know him. I had a tough relationship with my mom and lost her a few years ago to complications from substance abuse. I miss her dearly even though she gave me a jacked up childhood. Hid parents have been married for over 45 years.
• I wish my partner would understand that I love to smoke phat doinks (marijuana). #SparkUpSteve
• What living with him and his diagnosed bipolar ass is like every day. #secrets
• I wish my partner understood that his whole body doesn’t need to convulse when he simply sneezes. Over react much hun.
• How to put a new fishing roll of TP on when it's gone.
• I wish that my partner understood that he doesn’t need to use baby talk to our dogs ‍♀️
• I wish my husband understood the concept of. Double flush
• I wish my lady knew that not everything revolves around her. Men need some things to stay satisfied as well
• Understood my bowels more. And that I have gas all the time. Accept it!
• I wish my partner understood that when she asks, "Can you get me the thing in the thing?... You know the thing...", that it's a bit of a struggle to know what she's talking about. Lol
• I wish my partner understood how to lick my kitty.... I scratch your back now SCRATCH MINE!!!! #comeonbro