What Did You Want To Do But Your Partner Shut It Down? – #TQOTD

It's Friday and that means that we are going back in time to a Text Question of the Day from the past. This one was from July 9, 2019 and is all about your partner shutting you down.

TEXT QUESTION OF THE DAY:
What did you want to do but your partner shut it down?

• I recently got my dream job with decent pay for our family, and my husband had the AUDACITY to propose quitting his job and becoming and I quote “A Semi-Pro Fisherman/Stay at Home Dad”. Granted he’s not that good at fishing nor is he that attentive to the kids. Had to shut that down real quick, but I’ll give home props for confidence.
• Start building our new house this spring. But due to lumber costs he shut it right down. So next spring it is.
• My husband wants to have a threesum (me him and another woman) but I refuse
• Buy a Christmas farm. Move to the country. Get ALL the dogs. In reality he pretty much let's me do what I want. It's me that says no. Hahah
• A Star Wars wedding
• In Jamaica on our honeymoon, I wanted to go to the nude beach island. He refused I was very disappointed
• Go on a cruise. He said Hell no there are PIRATES out on them waters. Big chicken
• Husband won’t let my 3 kids & I get a baby turtle. We really want one tho.
• Get a pet snake, pet hedgehog, pet pig... it usually revolves around animals. Otherwise, I do what I want!
• Everything
• Get a pet snake. We got a bearded dragon instead and I love him but I still want a snake.
• Thankfully my partner is really supportive. Haha the only thing he really makes me "think hard about" before I do it is buying more art supplies. But he has never shut any of my ideas down. Nor I his.
• Move to Hawaii
• Build an in-ground swimming pool
• Buy a boat
• Butt stuff
• Take dancing lessons I think it would be fun and good exercise...he wants nothing to do with it!!
• Firepits, cooking out. Anything to do with enjoying outside with fire. He's a retired firefighter and everything that deals with fire for enjoyment is a no, it's too windy, no we don't have enough propane grrrr
• Move to Florida
• Casino...right now...but I'm going to win this one!
• Back in the day I really wanted to get a lime green mohawk. My ex told me hell no he'd break up with me! Still wish I would of done it.
• Adopt all the cats and pupper dogs
• Holding hands
• My fiancé always wants to travel but I constantly remind him how poor we are and how we can't afford it
• I ask husband if would rather go on vacation and spend unlimited amount of money or buy a new Bass Tracker boat? I have brand new bass boat, so much for a vacation of a life time!
• When I was still married I always said that when I hit 40 I wanted my tubes tied ( I'm high risk)...so when I hit 40 my ex said no he still wanted more kids after our 1 even though my body couldn't handle it again... still only have the 1 n she is my lil miracle.
• I wanted to take him to the Grand Canyon. He happened to be looking at stuff on his phone and said ×=/\ NO..
• Nothing’ If your partner stops you maybe you shouldn’t be married. 50-50 support each other.
• Dye my hair purple. He says it isn't natural.
• Becoming foster parents. He's excited ours are getting older, but I jus want to mommy some more.
• Have a patio area in the yard.....so I put an old rug down and my lawn chair....real classy
• My wife said I couldn't buy a dune buggy. So my cousin gave me one! I'm restoring it right now. She's still not happy.
• Getting a dog
• Going on a tornado tour
• Nothing. I do what I want :D
• Send my kids to Catholic school
• Road trip in a RV
• Buy a 12 foot skeleton
• Bacon-flavored wedding cake
• Buy lottery tickets for Mega Millions last night!!
• Nothing because he loves and supports me and doesn't control me.
• Buying an RV
• Buy a tiger
• Be happy lol
• Put in a swimming pool
• Get a Pontiac GTO
• Be in a relationship
• Weird to say but getting my tubes tied...he said I have gone through enough having our 3 perfect babies now its his turn. Snip snip
• Fostering
• Live out of a van and travel the country
• My boyfriend told me I wasn’t allowed to by these for an indoor decoration....how rude
• OnlyFans
• Have a 5th kid and by kid I mean our 5th boy
• My ex wife wouldn't let me go to a strip club lol I have been to many since my divorce!! # love being single.
• "Why try to stop you? You're going to do it anyway." My hubby.
• Learn to skateboard, in my 40’s. Guess he thought the risk of injury far out weighed my ability to be successful.
• A pool. It’s the only thing he’s fought me on. I gave up, and just buy more throw pillows to annoy him.
• Get a mustache tattoo on my finger
• An around the world cruise! It’s only $53,000 per person and 138 days. I told him he didn’t have to go. How am I going to see all these places otherwise?