Throw caution to the wind and while you are at it, throw your significant other under the bus.  We want to know what they need to STOP doing this year.

SECRETS:
What do you secretly wish your SO would stop doing in 2020?

  • To stop with the animals! We have 4 cats and a puppy inside (we just had a baby in August, and have a 6-year-old). BUT outside we have 11 adult chickens, and we just hatched 2 more chicks, I'm sure in the spring he will hatch more! But he also wants to get 2 bunnies and 2 goats in the spring!... Also, I'm pretty sure he is addicted to chickens now and will hatch them every spring and fall...our property isn't that big! 😂 It's a lot of work!
  • I wish he didn’t work so hard; I appreciate that he does but it’s taking a physical toll on him. I love him immensely and want him to be well and not work himself into an early grave.
  • I wish my SO would stop not existing in my life...meaning I currently don't have one lol
  • Singing in the shower! It’s like being stuck in that stupid Peloton commercial with the guy who can’t sing belting it out on his bike
  • I wish he’d stop working second shift and be on day shift with me. It sucks only seeing your husband on the weekends. 😕
  • I wish he would stop prioritizing other people in his life. And start putting me and his kids before anything and anyone! He always drops what he is doing when his family members call, but they won't ever call to check on him or see if he needs anything!
  • Falling asleep at 7 EVERY NIGHT and leaving me feeling lonely AND NEGLECTED!
  • Humming all the effing time!
  • Chewing tobacco hasn't anyone told ya lately it's nasty.
  • Playing fortnite and can’t stop for anything....the house could be burning down and he wouldn’t stop playing lol.
  • Being negative.
  • Live the secret life
  • Vaping...
  • SWB: It’s no secret...I wish she would quit smoking
  • Snoring...not a secret.
  • Eating after 11 pm. There were carbs; 7 am there were not.
  • Avoiding me lol Where you at dude?! 😂😂
  • Getting mad so easily and about every stupid little thing.
  • To stop leaving his pop cans throughout the house haha
  • Eating like a caveman!!
  • If he would stop going back on promises.
  • The hard part about this one is the word secretly. My husband knows everything that I wish he would stop doing because I tell him.
  • I wish my husband would stop chewing tobacco. He's 15 years in and I just worry he will get mouth cancer. I also wish he'd work out with me like he uses to so we can be healthy together.
  • I know that depression isn't something you can just "get over" but I do hope that it improves this year. My boyfriend and I will be going on 5 years this year and ever since we got together he has been depressed. It didn't help that his best friend passed away a year after being together. He has been to therapy before and absolutely hated it and tells me he'll never go back. Some days are worse than others, obviously, but it's just a constant struggle on both ends. I try the best I can to help him, but I don't know how to help someone that doesn't want help. I pray that he seeks help this year and can find a better way to cope. P.S. it's way worse in the winter, his friend passed in December of 2016
  • Secrets what do you secretly wish your significant other would stop doing this year? Not being romantic! I just want to feel like a woman and be swept off my feet once in a while so if my boyfriend could actually start being romantic that would be great!
  • I wish my significant other would stop being so childish in 2020
  • TQOTD: I secretly wish my husband would stop drinking at night after I go to bed. He swears he doesn’t have a problem, but he doesn’t drink until I’ve gone to bed and it feels like his need to hide it is a huge warning sign. He has done this for years.
  • My boyfriend likes to talk on speakerphone in public. Seriously, no one wants to hear your bromance conversation about Fortnite.
  • Taking medical advice from the internet. I swear my husband is a hypochondriac ever since he found WebMD.
  • I wish my husband would stop being so closed off and secretive. We’re both going through a lot but he just won’t talk to me about it and it’s driving me nuts.
  • Secrets.. I wish he would stop thinking every ache, pain or twitch was the absolute end of his life You're frogging 46 not 86 and in pretty damn good health. Just stop it!!!
  • I wish he would stop trying to loose weight. He’s not overweight at all yet he’s trying to lose some. It makes me uncomfortable because losing weight has always been a struggle for me, I’m not exactly a twig, and I don’t want him to be wayyyyy thinner than me.
  • I wish my bf would stop backing down to his ex-wife. She's a total bully and he doesn't have to take it anymore.
  • Quit playing the victim in the relationship. #secrets
  • Whistling like a weirdo
  • Telling me pointless information about the cars he works on at work and acting like he’s a know-it-all
  • Open-mouthed chewing. It's like living with a cow. Oh and he farts like a cow too.
  • Not brushing their teeth in the morning. Like, bro, it’s a 3-minute task.
  • Eating cake at midnight.
  • I wish my fiance would stop leaving his socks EVERYWHERE! Not only does he leave them all over our house, in the couches and bed, but he leaves them at other people's houses! Like my parents, his parents, my sister's house, friends' houses. I don't understand how someone can visit a house with socks and shoes on and leave without socks!
  • Kinda gross, but I wish that he would stop eating his buggers.... that is the only thing that I don't like
  • Biting my fingernails... Yes, SHE bites MY fingernails. I hate it but she is so obsessed with biting fingernails, that she will bite mine and our daughters if we aren't paying attention. Very Weird.