You shouldn’t be so judgmental they say. Really? Isn’t that judgmental of them? Sometimes we just can’t help ourselves and we just judge away.

TEXT QUESTION OF THE DAY:
What’s something you secretly judge people for?

  • When pregnant woman drink Red Bull’s
  • What type of beer they order
  • Their shoes
  • How much they tip
  • Using paper plates for EVERY. SINGLE. MEAL. Come on, people!!! Really?
  • Eyebrows, painted on overlined eyebrows
  • The contents of their shopping carts
  • Their teeth, I’m sorry but a toothbrush does wonders. Green teeth are not attractive or girls with black teeth aren't taken care of. Brushing your teeth is a must please.
  • Smushing spiders instead of taking them outside
  • For being weak
  • Their teeth
  • Wearing crocs
  • 4-door jeeps
  • Grammar and spelling
  • Letting their kids make major decisions when they're WAY too young, and letting them run the house.
  • I check people in for medical services, my biggest peeve is patients who are too engrossed in their phone to look up for my questions. But that's okay... When you get a bill for services because you were too busy to update your insurance, that's on your time, not mine.
  • Your makeup and hair. Some people just don’t know how to use it right.
  • How they treat employees anywhere
  • Dishonest in general or especially when they claim to be a certain way when they are not.
  • I make it obvious I judge people for littering, but the real secret one is old dirty socks. Treat yourself, hunny.
  • English spelling, pronunciation, grammar, etc.
  • Dirty houses
  • The way parents speak to their kids in public. I get kids can be difficult, but if youre screaming at your kid in the middle of a crowded store, just don't. Kinda trashy IMO
  • Poor grammar
  • I judge people by the kind of coffee they drink! Brands vary by preference but if you're drinking that crappy fast food bean water I'm judging you harshly!!!!!
  • Manners, big time. Also driving, but I don't keep my hatred for crummy drivers a secret.
  • People who have horribly behaved dogs.
  • People who are impatient with elderly or disabled. Especially in public. Each person deserves their time at the cashier, or to put their change back in their wallet/purse, or just plain not having to rush, rush, rush through EVERYTHING. The whole 2 minutes it takes out of my day to let people breathe-does not hurt me whatsoever.
  • How they treat animals. They live here, you don't. Our dog is my son (only son I'll ever get) and he is treated as a member of the family.
  • Leaving shopping carts all Over the parking lot.
  • Poor grammar
  • Neck tattoos
  • The way they dress.
  • Their teeth but I live in the Midwest so there will always be someone who just got done smoking anhydrous smiling in public and ruining my day
  • I judge people who aggressively scold their children in public! Yes, kids need to be put in their place at times, but to show that embarrassing someone in public is a poor trait as a parent in my eyes. A ton of people disagree, that’s why I judge in silence. I’d prefer kids to be scolded in a calm way to show them how respect works. No need for them to think the whole world needs to hear of their mistakes!
  • I will judge you so hard based on how you treat retail workers/wait staff/ect. Please be a decent person to all people, especially ones who are just trying to do their job.
  • Not washing their hands after using the restroom. Also, staring you down while walking towards you taking up all the sidewalk and not even attempting to give you space to walk… why you gotta be so rude!?
  • Passing on a shoulder
  • Using "should of" instead of "should have" and wearing pajamas in public.
  • People who don't use their turn signal, or if they do, but not until they are halfway through the turn.
  • When pregnant women go to the bar and get drunk!!!
  • How a person’s children behave (especially in public), their appearance, and how they talk; tells a lot about a person as a parent.
  • People who tip cheaply
  • Throwing cigarettes out a car window.
  • When I go to the store, make a purchase, say "Thank you", and the reply I get is "Not a problem". Gosh, I hope it wasn't a "problem" that I purchased something from you.
  • People who chew food with their mouths open and are really loud doing it! Like.... C'mon, shut your mouth already!! Ugh, drives me insane!
  • I judge people based on whether or not they smile or wave at a child if the child smiles and waves at them.
  • Poor spelling and grammar. Especially online. You literally have a dictionary in your hand. Use it.
  • How lazy people are ,when they don't take care of their grocery carts.
  • Clutter on their front lawns.
  • Parking. Tho sometimes my kids hear it.
  • Putting their license plate tags on the wrong spot on their license plate. It literally comes with one sentence of instructions and people can't follow it. Drives me crazy.
  • Their lack of blinker usage
  • Sense of humor (or lack)
  • Their yard
  • Dirty children. Makes me so mad. Brush their hair, wash their face, match when you dress them! It boils my blood
  • People who use Beauty filters on their children
  • Not working when they are perfectly capable
  • Standing by an intersection with a homeless sign yet the stores around them have for hire signs and the person wears clean pressed clothes
  • How they treat waitstaff and retail workers.
  • Attitude
  • My mom gave me a short list of fashion rules when I was a kid(examples: wear a skin tone bra under a white shirt, never wear black and navy together, etc.) and I see people break those rules all the time. Sometimes I see someone’s outfit and I think, “your mom never gave you the rules of fashion.”
  • I try not to be judgemental because you never know what someone is going through BUT I will judge you if you are closed minded and hateful towards others. I can't stand hateful people.
  • I definitely judge people for chewing with their mouth open. But not so secretly judge people for how they treat animals and wait staff at restaurants.
  • I am judgy Judgdy JUDGY! when I'm playing with my kid at the park and your kid wants to come play because I am a fun mom showing my kid attention and I look over and the parent is sitting on a bench head down in their phone... I feel sorry for you as time goes faster than you'll ever know when your kids are little and I feel sorry for your kid because they are building resentment against you That will probably come out in their 20s and you won't know why
  • Always hate women who are big chest without a bra never fails with a white shirt on or courtesy
  • Uh, if they see the face I am making, it's not a secret anymore.
  • People who have horribly behaved dogs.
  • Not putting their shopping carts in the cart corral.
  • It's no secret, I will openly judge you if you believe the earth is flat.
  • I secretly judge people who sit on the same side of the table at a restaurant/bar
  • Open mouth chewing. Drives me nuts. IDK Y
  • How clean someone bathroom is
  • Liking their own comments on Facebook
  • People who post cryptic things on FB just so 200 people will ask OMG what's wrong and then they don't answer.
  • People who rotate through partners yet each one is “the love of their life.”
  • Toilet paper!! It's gotta pass the finger test
  • WHEN PEOPLE COMMENT IN ALL CAPS AND DONT USE PUNCTUATION but also the ones who do all lower and can’t manage a comma or period your phone does it for you hit the spacebar twice and wahlah there it is IT WILL EVEN CORRECT OR SUGGEST YOUR AND YOU’RE TOO TWO TO THERE THEIR THEY'RE GIVE IT A TRY PLEASE

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