We've all had bad relationships.  Well, except for that one couple you know who were high school sweethearts and are nauseatingly adorable together.  So, as long as you aren't those people, we want to know the reason why you broke up with one of your ex's.

TEXT QUESTION OF THE DAY:
What was the “Straw that broke the Camels back” moment when you ended your relationship?

  • When he drained our savings account to buy himself a whole bunch of virtual reality stuff on the game "Second Life" (think The Sims but you use actual money instead of fake sim money to pay for things). He bought himself a virtual dune buggy, a virtual dance club, a virtual whale...all with our actual savings. All while refusing to get a job and refusing to actually take care of our infant child while he was home all day. Kicked him to the curb and haven't seen or heard from him in over a decade.
  • My ex was a narcissist. He did nothing wrong. It was always my fault. EX: we went to a store. He went in. I had to pee. Came out and he still wasn't there. Turns out his drunk ass got in the wrong jeep. He had to go back to the lady to retrieve a stolen DVD from the glove box. But it was all my fault. Obviously, that wasn't it. Many stories of a drunken narcissist. And yes, I thought it was my fault. Cried and apologized. Luckily that was years ago and engaged to a wonderful man.
  • When my partner cheated on me and told me to lie to our counselor about their drinking problem.
  • When he had 6 affairs while we were married and abused me while pregnant.
  • When my partner completely shut me out after I told him that he didn't care about my feelings.
  • When he put his profile back up on a dating site after completely ignoring me for weeks without explanation.
  • The straw that broke the camel’s back for me was when in her exact words she told me “I thought I was ready for a relationship, but really I just don’t want to be alone.” Uhmmmm... no. I’m not anyone’s toy. Sorry.
  • I've had a few relationships that have ended because of complacency. It bothers me when someone complains they don't like about their lives but in the same turn they take no action to change it. If you don't like your job, find a new one, if you wanna cut back on drinking to feel better take steps to do so. If you aren't going to take action to change what is making you unhappy with your life than don't complain about it. One of my biggest pet peeves.
  • When I was gone for a week in California ( for a class) and he didn’t come to pick me up from the airport. When I got home he wasn’t even home. He was at his cabin. By the time he got home, I had my stuff packed in my car Ready to go.
  • ANONYMOUS!!!!TQOTD..well it hasn't quite broken yet but it's getting pretty weak! I would say if the endless feeling of being controlled and made to feel somewhat bad or stupid way too often keeps going that sucker is going to breakfast! A person can only take so much!
  • Gm guys mine was when she cheated on me twice in a year because I worked too much so I left her ass then I put a sticker on the back of my window that said screw my ex every one else has
  • When he told me that my feelings weren't a priority to him.
  • We were in a hotel room he had gotten for our anniversary. He went all out- drinks, roses on the bed, etc. as we were laying in bed he started to get upset and said "I'm afraid to be alone". To which I replied "you'll never be alone, I'm here".... apparently he meant it as that was his way of telling me he wasn't in love with me and was afraid he wouldn't find anyone else... it ended shortly after.
  • The straw that broke the camel's back. I was with a boyfriend for just over two years and we moved into a two-bedroom place. He unpacked all of his stuff in one room and all of my stuff in the other room. Byyeee
  • Good morning guys, The straw that broke the camels back for my last relationship was my Ex siding with her friend over me. Her friend was an umpire for one of my baseball games and he made one of the worst calls I've ever seen in my baseball career. I (12 years of playing ball at the time) was arguing with her about how wrong her friend was with the call and she just wouldn't listen so I said I can't do this anymore and left. Best decision ever!!
  • The straw that broke the camel's back after 22 years of marriage was my ex-wife's inability to participate in family functions ever
  • TQOTD: My ex was horribly mean, borderline abusive, to my dog. I knew his "kindness" was fake. Please keep this anonymous.
  • The lack of intimacy. The fact that she treats me like a roommate and not a spouse.
  • The straw that broke the camel's back for me is after being together for almost 8 months she wanted me to become a Jehovah's witness so she can stay and her faith and make me change from being a Christian
  • Ex is a hoarder. The straw that broke the camel's back for me was in insect infestation where the exterminator told my now ex-husband that he had to get rid of the cardboard boxes or we wouldn't get rid of the bugs pictures to follow
  • Text question of the day: before my husband, at the time, went out of state for a job, I connected his phone to mine, because I had reasonable suspicion, and while he was gone he contacted an "agency", and set up a time and place to meet up with one of the "workers". I also noticed [1]400 was withdrawn from our joint account, which he said he pulled it out and lost it. When he got back I had my stuff packed and moved to my parents.
  • Straw that broke it? Getting married. My ex I should have NEVER settled for. I realized I had more self-worth.
  • The last straw in my first relationship: he asked for permission to make Ballon animals with another guy. #byefelicia
  • She caught me watching a porn on my phone she said I was cheating on her
  • Good morning! Straw that broke the camel's back was I walked in on my ex cheating on me with one of my friends... This was after I drove to Iowa to surprise her for her graduation...
  • I thought he was coming home for dinner. I made meatloaf. He went to Florida with his guy friends
  • TQOTD: my ex slapped my mom on the ass. Thought it would be funny. Bye Bye.....
  • When I came home from work and found her at the kitchen table with a bunch of ppl snorting cocaine off a mirror
  • Boyfriend was stealing my clothes and buying his own women’s clothes and had a storage unit filled with them because he is a crossdresser
  • When he called my 6-year-old daughter a fat ass
  • When I found out he was still talking to his ex about how he wanted her and the kids back in his life and he was just using me! Oh, by the way, I was 3 months pregnant when I found out.
  • I had one ex that told me the more he got to know me the less he liked me... the next ex punched me in the face the day after I got my wisdom teeth pulled. I didn't go on a date for 5 years
  • My ex told me she was pregnant for about three weeks. I at the time was fine with it, but nervous like any other guy. I broke the news to my parents too
  • When I found out he'd been in prison for 6 years and failed to divulge that information.
  • I had suspicions my boyfriend and then fiance was cheating on me, but he always said I was being crazy. I was young enough to believe that. After we got married he didn't come home one night. That was enough, all his stuff was on the yard that afternoon.
  • The straw that broke the camels back.... was when he told me he was going to leave me for the 3rd time. I filed for divorce the next day.
  • It was after our daughter ended up in the NICU after an emergency c-section. The hospital we birthed at released me early, so I could see my baby girl but told me not to walk more than a couple minutes max. My ah ha moment was when he threw a fit because I wasn't walking fast enough, and Told him I needed a wheelchair. He started bitching me out in front of a bunch of random strangers about how difficult I was making his life...yup. Wasn't long after that we weren't together
  • I knew we were done when his drinking became more important than his girls. I asked him to pick up diapers on his way home from work..he came home with beer and cigarettes and completely forgot to get the diapers more than once.
  • Drugs, alcohol, cheating, and abuse. the straw that broke the camels back in our co-parenting relationship was when I found out he drove drunk with my two children in his care. #fuckthat #dontdrinkanddrive 💪😒
  • my ex knew I hate surprises and had been having an emotionally hard day. So he thought to show up at my place an hour before he was supposed to be done at work & surprising me with a hug from behind as I walked in was a good "sweet" thing... I have done YEARS of self-defense training and I had my knife out because I knew I need to sharpen it so was going to sharpen it first thing when I got home... he didn't take a knife to the throat well. I didn't take the surprise well. We both apologized but it was our end... #TQOTD